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How to give the ultimate blow-job

Here are our jaw-dropping tips!

Oral sex, fellatio, blow-job, foreplay, BJ, giving head or third base... There are countless names and nicknames to the most pleasurable kind of foreplay for men.

While some partners seem to have natural talents and abilities to blow him off, some others have failed their "oral exam" and some just found a unique way to blow his socks off!

So either you're willing to surpass your innate oral talents or you're really needing some education on this matter, here are some jaw-dropping tips!

1 Forget your one-solution-fits-all technique

If you're a pro of an amazing technique - either involving a grapefruit or an old geisha trick- that used to almost make your ex faint, it won't necessarily work for your new partner.

Men are unique and so are their penises!

2 Tame his anatomy

Observe and talk about his soft, sweet, tingly spots and learn everything about them. During this phase be extra-cautious and slow, tease him and unveil progressively your pleasure promises.

3 Use your whole body

If your mouth is the key-element in this pleasure process, don't forget the rest of your anatomy to give him an unforgettable oral caress, you can use your:

  • eyes to keep him connected;
  • fingers to stroke him, caress his scrotum, scratch his thighs, tease his perineum or stimulate his anus...
  • breasts to create a warming intermission that'll relieve your jaw;
  • and don't forget to use your mouth to verbalise: talk to him, encourage him, seduce him.

 4 Know the Holy Trinity - Sucking, Pressure, Sucking 

                A- Texture:  The variation of textures around the penis might create pleasing variations, especially on the glans

  • Coat your teeth with your soft and padded lips
  • Use the ridges of your palate to surprise him
  • Roll your tongue as a velvet sleeve around his anatomy.
  • Surprise him with the softness of the inside of your cheeks.

                B- Pressure exerted around the shaft and/or the glans is extremely pleasurable for most men as it is very important to reach the orgasm during masturbation.

  • Squeeze his shaft around your lips, press gently his glans between your lips or tug gently on his scrotum.
  • Use your hand as a tunnel around his shaft and squeeze it while your tongue and lips are caressing his fraenulum, glans and foreskin.

                C- Suction: is probably why oral sex is so much appreciated.

Steady and measured suction helps increasing the blood flow and creates a variation of pressure along the whole penis.

Squeeze in the inside of your cheeks and use this movement to alternate between vacuum and air-filling sensations in a whirlwind of sensations!

5 Coordinate your moves

The up-and-down motion is the most common movement during oral sex, a stiff neck or a monotonous hand could be big disadvantages tough.  

Surprise him with a swirl of your tongue and/or tilt your head while going up and down his manhood.

Wrap your index and thumb for both of your hands around his shaft while sucking his glans. While you are sucking twist your fingers around the shaft in opposite directions. Make sure you lubricate him generously with your saliva.

6 Master your tempo

Rhythm is key when building up pleasure. Start really gentle and ridiculously slow and end in a Grand finale of sensations.

Compose your blow job as a symphony. With a recurrent move that'll constitute the melody, add a variation of tempo from largo (ridiculously slow) to prestissimo (exaggeratedly fast)  and use sparingly pauses and breaks. Let him catch his breath, give him a devilish look from time to time and surprise him with strategic variations.

7 Going deep or shallow?

While Linda Lovelace has changed oral sex techniques - in-depth-  with her profound performance, you don't need to absolutely swallow his pride to make it unforgettable!

Deep-throating is spectacular and is not an easy process due to the gag reflex.

 If some gentlemen find it really enjoyable, some might not find your choking really sexy.

Either ways, never engage into a perilous movement if you are not both comfortable!

Yet, if you fancy some deeper oral sex, these tips might come in handy:

Tame your gag reflex by using various techniques: breathe through your nose, learn how to relax your throat muscles, squeeze your fist, or simply train your soft palate to the intimate contact.

Take your time and don't try to swallow the whole penis in a swift movement, but in a really progressive and gentle way using a lot of saliva.

Ask your partner if this is something he really find enjoyable, as many men don't necessarily need their whole penis swallowed to feel something.

If you don't fancy deeper contacts, learn how to turn him crazy just by sucking the glans in a very slow motion yet without triggering over-sensitivity. This delicate technique leads to incredible orgasms when properly executed.