- 1. Why are there several studies now that have declared that the G-spot doesn’t exist?
- 2. What is the G-spot ?
- 3. Do all women have a G-spot ?
- 4. What is the best way to find my G-spot?
- 5. How is the G-spot linked to female orgasm? What is a G-spot orgasm?
- 6. What if a woman really can’t find her G-spot? Is the G-spot easier to find with age or sexual experience?
- 7. What is the connection between the G-spot and the prostate?
- 8. Why are there so many toys designed for G-spot stimulation and what makes the G-Ki different from other toys?
- 9. What positions are easiest to find my G-spot in?
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When you look closely, these studies are all flawed. They are based on self-reporting, which, like Violet Blue was quoted as saying, is like asking a group of men if they have a prostate. The studies also focused solely on heterosexual penis-vagina intercourse, which is not always the best way to stimulate the G-spot and did not take into account non-intercourse based sex at all.
Over 100 studies show that the G-spot definitely exists. The G-spot (female prostate) not only exists, but you can SEE it! Someday we will laugh to think we could not see the nose on our face. © 2010 Deborah Sundahl
First of all, a woman must be aroused in order to find her G-spot (or for anyone to find it really). Secondly, not all women enjoy G-spot stimulation – some can’t get over the feeling that they have to pee.
First off, I always get a little thrill when researchers come out with new studies focused on sexuality. As a field, human sexuality has long been ignored by the mainstream scientific community. So no matter the findings, more research is always a good thing.
Amongst a certain breed of straight laced, button downed scientists that would like to compare the search for the G-spot to the search for the Lost City of Atlantis. They take as an assumption that the G-Spot is a mythical creature and does not exist. Whether their basis has influenced their research is unclear.
However it may be possible that the G-spot does not exist because it may not a separate structure, but merely a region of the vagina that is highly receptive to pleasure. Take for example the ear. It is a highly erogenous part of the body and many people report that the earlobe in particular is exquisitely sensitive. But if we get a room full of scientists to dissect a hundred ears, they are probably not going to find a special bundle of nerves that we could label the “E-spot”. Does that mean we should stop licking each other’s ears? Heck no! What difference does an extra cluster of nerves or special gland matter if it feels good?